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Netiquette

Understanding how to behave online is important in becoming web savvy. As the Internet continues to become a primary form of communication, it is vital to know what is and is not acceptable behavior while communicating online.

It is especially important for parents to help ensure that their children not only learn proper "Netiquette" at an early age, but that they are also using the Internet safely, appropriately and courteously.

Below is a list of the "Netiquette" core rules, but more information can be found at:

Things to Avoid Advice
Typing in all capital letters Shouting or screaming online is rude
Demanding help from anyone on the Net and then getting upset because you don't get it. People are busy: they don't owe you anything. If you ask nicely you might get help.
Formatting emails with colored text/background They are difficult to read without converting them.
Posting anything without acknowledging the source. It is considered good form to not where the item came from with a link or short sentence, even if you have permission to use it.
Sending an email to a large group of people and revealing their email addresses to all the recipients It is courteous to all those recipients to place their email address in the BCC field.
Posting any kind of stolen software. People should be compensated for their efforts. Stealing even a small shareware program or game is illegal and a criminal offence.
Never give out phone numbers or personal information. Always check out who you are sending the information to, as they may not be reputable party.
Sending any kind of pyramid scheme. These are ALWAYS illegal, regardless of what they say and they don't work.
Emailing very large files without letting the other person know. Getting a large file will slow things down for users, fill up their mailbox and prevent them from receiving something that may be more important.
Email virus hoaxes. Make sure it's real before you tell everyone you know.
Sending something that is infected with a virus. Scan for viruses regularly and keep your software up-to-date.
Email subject lines that go on and on and on. Use the body of the email for your message and the subject line for a brief description.
Emails with no subject line at all. A Spammer tactic. A subject line gives someone a little information before they read the main text. It also helps people sort and organize their emails.

If your child uses email, chat, or forums you've likely seen them communicate in what may seem to be a secret foreign language of symbols and acronyms. These symbols, known as emoticons, and acronyms let them express emotion and ideas in chat messages without having to type entire words or phrases. The list collated below is by no means exhaustive, but is designed to help you join in the fun as well as help you decode your child's chat messages to ensure they're safe online!



Emoticons

@>--,---  A rose
:-()  Big mouth (User has rambled on)
:-(  Frowning
(( )):**  Hugs and kisses
*<:-)(  I'm Santa Claus
:-D  Laughing
:-*  Puckering for a kiss
:**:  Returning kiss
:-o   Shouting
:)  Smiling
:-)  Smiling, with a nose
1^o  Snoring
>:-(  Upset or annoyed
:-ss  User drools
:-{   User has a moustache
%-)  User has been staring at a green screen for 15 hrs
:'-(  User is crying
:-@  User is screaming
:'-)  User is so happy s/he is crying
:-7   User just made a wry statement
:-x  User's lips are sealed
{(:-)  Wearing a toupee
B-)  Wearing cool shades
8-)  Wearing glasses
;-)   Winking


Acronyms

Abbreviation Meaning
404 I haven't a clue
ADN Any day now
AFAIK As far as I know
AFK Away from keyboard
ASAP As soon as possible
A/S/L? Age/sex/location?
B4N Bye for now
BAK Back at the keyboard
BBIAB Be back in a bit
BBL Be back later
BBN Bye bye now
BBS Be back soon
BF Boyfriend
BFN Bye for now
BG Big grin
BL Belly laughing
BMGWL Busting my gut with laughter
BRB Be right back
BTDT Been there, done that
BTW By the way
BWL Bursting with laughter
BWTHDIK But what the heck do I know...?
C&G Chuckle and grin
CNP Continued in next post
CRB Come right back
CRBT Crying real big tears
CU See you
CUL See you later
CUL8ER See you later
CYA See ya
CYO See you online
DL Dead link
DLTBBB Don't let the bed bugs bite
DIKU Do I know you?
DITYID Did I tell you I'm distressed?
DOM Dirty old man
DOS Dozing off soon
DQMOT Don't quote me on this
DTRT Do the right thing
DWB Don't write back
EG Evil grin
EMFBI Excuse me for butting in
EMSG E-mail message
EOM End of message
F2F Face to face
FAQ Frequently-ask question(s)
FC Fingers crossed
FISH First in, still here
FMTYEWTK Far more than you ever wanted to know
FOMCL Falling off my chair laughing
FTBOMH From the bottom of my heart
FUD Fear, Uncertainty, and Doubt
FWIW For what it's worth
FYI For your information
G Grin GA Go ahead
GAL Get a life
GD&R Grinning, ducking, and running
GF Girlfriend
GFN Gone for now
GIWIST Gee, I wish I'd said that
GL Good luck
GMAB Give me a break
GMTA Great minds think alike
GOL Giggling out loud
GTRM Going to read mail
GTSY Glad to see you
H&K Hug and kiss
HAGN Have a good night
HAND Have a nice day
HHIS Hanging head in shame
HIG How's it going
HT Hi there
HTH Hope this helps
IC I see
IHU I hear you
ILU or ILY I love you
IM Immediate message
IMS I am sorry
IOW In other words
IPN I'm posting naked
ITIGBS I think I'm going to be sick
IWALU I will always love you
IYSWIM If you see what I mean
J4G Just for grins
JIC Just in case
JK Just kidding
JTLYK Just to let you know
KISS Keep it simple stupid
KIT Keep in touch
KOTC Kiss on the cheek
KOTL Kiss on the lips
KWIM? Know what I mean?
L8R Later
L8R G8R Later gator
LD Later, dude
LDR Long-distance relationship
LHO Laughing head off
LMSO Laughing my socks off
LOL Laughing out loud
LSHMBH Laughing so hard my belly hurts
LTM Laugh to myself
LTNS Long time no see
LTR Long-term relationship
LULAB Love you like a brother
LULAS Love you like a sister
LUWAMH Love you with all my heart
LY Love ya
LY4E Love ya forever
MorF Male or female
MOSS Member of the same sex
MOTOS Member of the opposite sex
MTF More to follow
MUSM Miss you so much
NADT Not a darn thing
NIFOC Naked in front of computer
NP or N/P No problem
NRN No response necessary
OIC Oh, I see
OLL Online love
OMG Oh my God
OTOH On the other hand
OTTOMH Off the top of my head
PANS Pretty awesome new stuff (as opposed to "POTS")
PAW Parents are watching
PDA Public display of affection
PM Private message
PMFJIB Pardon me for jumping in but...
POAHF Put on a happy face
::POOF:: Goodbye (leaving the room)
POS Parent over shoulder
POTS Plain old telephone service
PU That stinks!
QT Cutie
ROFL Rolling on floor laughing
RPG Role-playing games
RSN Real soon now
RT Real time
S^ S'up - what's up
SETE Smiling ear to ear
SF Surfer-friendly (low-graphics Web site)
SHID Slaps head in disgust
SO Significant other
SOL Smiling out loud
SOMY Sick of me yet?
SOT Short on time
SOTMG Short on time must go
STW Search the Web
SU Shut up
SUAKM Shut up and kiss me
SUP What's up
SWAK Sealed with a kiss
SWL Screaming with laughter
SYS See you soon
TA Thanks again
TAFN That's all for now
TANSTAAFL There ain't no such thing as a free lunch
TCOY Take care of yourself
TGIF Thank God it's Friday
THX Thanks
TIA Thanks in advance (used if you post a question and are expecting a helpful reply)
TILII Tell it like it is
TLK2UL8R Talk to you later
TMI Too much information
TNT Till next time
TOPCA Til our paths cross again (early Celtic chat term)
TOY Thinking of you
TPTB The powers that be
TTFN Ta-Ta for now
TTT Thought that, too (when someone types in what you were about to type)
TTYL Talk to you later
TU Thank you
TY Thank you
UW You're welcome
VBG Very big grin
WAYD What are you doing
WB Welcome back
WBS Write back soon
WEG Wicked evil grin
WFM Works for me
WIBNI Wouldn't it be nice if
WT? What/who the ?
WTG Way to go!
WTGP? Want to go private?
WU? What's up?
WUF? Where are you from?
WYSIWYG What you see is what you get
YBS You'll be sorry
YW You're welcome